From one of my dream analyses:

In early August 1989 I had dinner with Jesse Raben and his roommate at a Chinese Restaurant.  I asked Jesse if he played softball.  He said no.  He asked me if I played softball.  I said, “No, because I throw like this” (I gestured in a manner suggesting a female ball toss).  Jesse said, “Because you’re a homosexual?  I said, “Yea.”